I was recently hired by a female manager and it came as quite a surprise.
I was expecting the usual interview process, but instead, she told me that she was looking to “eat me.” I’m not sure what she meant, but it definitely made me a bit uncomfortable.
I’m a guy and I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I’ve heard about men being harassed by their female bosses, but I never thought it would happen to me. I’m scared of what she’s going to do and what she might expect from me.
My first thought was to just quit and find another job. But I still need the money, so I decided to stay and just handle the situation as best as I can. I’m already on edge and I’m constantly worried about what she’s going to do.
I’ve tried to stay professional and do my job as best as I can, but I’m scared she’s going to use her power to try and get me to do things I don’t want to do. Every time she talks to me, I feel like she’s expecting something from me and I’m scared of what it might be.
I’ve also noticed that she’s been watching me more than usual.
I don’t know if she’s just trying to evaluate my performance or if she’s trying to see if I’m doing something she doesn’t like. I’m scared she’s going to find something and use it as an excuse to try and get something out of me.
I’m really not sure what to do at this point. I’m scared of being taken advantage of and I don’t know how to handle the situation. I’m considering talking to HR about it, but I’m not sure if that would even help at this point.
All I know is that I’m scared of what might happen and I’m trying my best to stay professional and do my job. I just hope that she doesn’t try anything and that I can eventually get out of this situation unscathed.