No one wants me and it’s killing me
I’m 26 (F) and I’m lonely. I have reached a point in my life where I yearn for love and companionship but not getting any.
I have dated before and been in one serious relationship which was emotionally and psychologically taxing.
I feel like I’m undesirable because no man wants me, and those who do just want to bed me. I do love myself, my friends and family love me but that doesn’t take away the fact that I wanted to be loved and wanted by someone I can spend my forever with.
I have tried dating sites before, but most of the men i meet there are either looking for something that’s no serious or they say they’re looking for a long term relationship but will make zero effort to know me or blatantly want me to pursue them.
I’m just tired. I just want to be loved and love back. All my friends are either married, engaged or in long term relationships (I don’t wanna compare but seeing them happy makes me realize how much I want that for myself as well). Sorry for venting.
Netizens’ comments
- You are still so young! I promise you that the one for you is coming, just wait. Trust me, and mark my words in 10 years from now one. When i was 29 i found the love of my life. Happy new year!
- But you are only 26. Please don’t think this will never happen. Don’t try and think to hard about it because before you know it, you will find that person.
- One advice don’t compare yourself to your friends that is never good because you will only be punching yourself. I would tell you find a friend group where you have stuff in common things you maybe go to events or maybe out door activites. find new people friends and from there everything else will come. Happy new year and hope everything works out 🙂
- I’m sorry that you feel like this and I know it’s hard. I would honestly say to maybe seek therapy because if it’s a pattern it may have been something in your life that happened. I’m not trying to be mean, but this could help you a lot.