My hubby has a bad habit of always being very touchy in the middle of the night during sleep. Fondling or putting his heavy arm over my body the entire night.
Over the years, I have developed very bad sleeping because of him and became very grouchy in the day. I get startled easily in the night and I need to wake up at 4am+ for work.
When Hubby didn’t sleep well, he simply MC all the way and he don’t care. Seriously he can clock beyond the MC quota per year and has been changing 22 jobs for the past 18 years.
I have been thinking of separating room with him and I rather sleep with my boys. But this is not a long-term solution due to room layout also.
I need help or else I will feel my productivity very low and I’m seriously sick of my hubby’s irresponsible habits all these years.
All the scolding and divorce threats on him don’t work.
Netizens’ comments
- He may touch you unconsciously when he’s sleeping. Maybe cannot be controlled since he is not conscious.
However, bad / insufficient sleep is very detrimental for the body and mind.
Get another bed or split the queen to two single, etc. Don’t sacrifice your health.(To keep your marriage or not is a separate issue)
- Fonding is one of the love languages between couple. This is one of it that your hubby do it to you. How about yours expectation or love language to your hubby?
- I am more concerned about the 22 jobs in 18 years.