So…this all started after an amazing day. My bff came over to hang out and meet my boyfriend. A few other friends were over, but they eventually left and it was just us 3 left. This is not an uncommon scenario…this friend and I have known each other for most of our lives, but we got super close 10 years ago when we both were pregnant at the same time.
During part of our friendship, we were both married and would hang out at times almost every day at one of our houses (She is still married. I’m divorced). We also do a lot of joint sleepovers with our kids and have for years because we both have girls of similar ages. Nothing has ever happened with either of us and the other person’s husband or boyfriend. Ever.
This time was different.
We all started drinking. My bf is not a big drinker. My friend is, but she stopped drinking for January and has only drunk a handful of times. I don’t know if that contributed because their tolerance was lower…I don’t know. All I know is we drank a TON of wine.
I woke up on the couch and had a pillow and blanket. I went to my room and my door was locked. I had to kind of break the door handle a bit to open it (luckily it is an older house). When I came in, both my bf and my friend were in the bed together, but on opposite ends, not touching or anything. I thought it was weird that they were both in the bed together and the door was locked, and I wasn’t really sure why it wasn’t both us girls or me and my bf up there. I woke up my bf and asked why I was left on the couch and he said that I had passed out and there was nowhere else for them to sleep, so they both slept in my bed and passed out. He told me to get in the bed with them and I did between them. My friend was still asleep. So I get in between them and then I realize he is in his underwear. I’m like wtf and asked him why he was in his underwear with my friend. He said he always sleeps in his underwear and he was drunk and not thinking.
So, then I kind of lift the covers and see my friend is in her thong. This girl and I have slept together many a time after drinking and she has never slept in a thong. So, I ask him about it and he confesses that they may have fooled around some. So, after about 24 hours of talking about this, processing it, etc, this is what I have been told by my bf:
He says we were all just talking and having a great time when I suggested a threesome. My friend was rubbing on my leg and he said I looked like I was going to make out with her. He said we all started talking about it, and then I got tired and went to sleep. He went and got me a pillow.
He was going to go he said, but my friend told him to go stay in the bed and she would stay on the floor. He told her not to do that, that she should sleep in the bed. He said he had every intention of her sleeping in the bed, and him leaving, but she said she wasn’t ready to go to bed yet, and wanted to drink more wine, so they drank wine and talked.
I don’t know how to continue…