No s chemistry with husband
I am S attracted to a childhood friend I will never marry because we have different needs and priorities in life. I am happily married, butS I am not attracted to my husband. He is very good looking – it’s got nothing to do with his looks. I just don’t like his vibe. It’s like we don’t sync and there’s no chemistry in the bedroom. But outside of bedroom we are a match made in heaven.
With my childhood friend, I feel turned on even if he just puts his hand on my head in a friendly way.
What’s worst is he is attracted to me to but I turned him down and didn’t even give him a chance.
There are too many deal-breakers, we are of different religions and of different worlds. I feel that in the long term the differences will tear us apart no matter the sexual chemistry.
I am happily married.
Just wonder how nice it would be if I could feel the same chemistry with my husband. Sigh what do I do? Is this even something that can be controlled?
Here are what netizens think:
- See. This is proof that woman can never be happy or contented handsome husband, match made in heaven.. still not happy LOL
- You mentioned happily married repeatedly – classic over-compensation
- You should divorce your husband and let him find someone who will appreciate him fully. You can go back to your childhood friend for the “chemistry” and the “vibe”, but there’s a risk your childhood friend would do a flip on you and leave you in limbo because he saw how your husband was treated. That’s how a lot of women end up with nothing. But as they say nowadays “slay Queen!”. You do you.
- U sure u happily married? U should hv considered all these b4 marriage. Get rid of your other options and stop comparing. Will u like it if your hubby has better sexual chemistry with other woman? How will u like him to do? I am sure the first thing is not to meet or be in contact with that lady. Likewise do it at your end.