Hi there, F(24) here. I’m gonna cut right to the chase.
I’ve slept with three people in my life. All of them have been boyfriends, 2 exes and my current one. Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 4 years. Absolutely no complaints, he’s an amazing person who genuinely cares about me and my well-being.
However, all of these relationships have something in common. None of them have ever lasted more than a minute with me. I’m serious. Never longer than a minute.
I am very confident in bed, I am not shy in bed at all. Foreplay could go on for hours. But the moment they stick it in, it’s almost immediately that they come.
I think the longest round of intimacy I’ve ever had was maybe 40 seconds (not exaggerating). And then I’m left hanging, asking them to finish me off or I’ll just end up doing it myself.
At first I convinced myself that maybe I’m just so darn good in bed they just simply can’t handle it(lol). But here lately I’ve been very frustrated because of it.
Sometimes a girl just wants to be pounded for a few minutes ya know?! The fingers aren’t nearly as satisfying. Especially after years and years of finishing myself off after pleasing a man with everything in me.
My question is, why could this be? Is it because I am too tight? Am I dragging foreplay out for too long? I wouldn’t think this way if it wasn’t for all three partners being the same way during intercourse.
Now i’m convinced something is wrong with me and i’m growing insecure. Anyone have any advice??? Thank you for reading
Netizens’ comments
- The first thing that comes to mind is to finish them off during foreplay so they can last longer on their second round with piv 🙂
- I’m gonna be real it just sounds like these guys aren’t very good at lasting. It’s not an uncommon problem, that’s why you see so many jokes about it in the mainstream, practically.
But speaking from experience as a man, you can work out your pelvic floor muscles and train yourself how to hold out on finishing. I did a lot of that as a teen, before I even had a girlfriend, so that I’d be able to keep it up for however long I need to. Worked out great.
I can pound her for 20+ minutes… whatever it takes to finish her. Then I’ll let myself go. It’s pretty fun trying to get it to line up so we can finish at the same time. And she feels amazing, so I wouldn’t go blaming yourself. It’s something a guy has to work on controlling, if he’s having problems with it. - I actually think is the kind of guys you are dating They most have some physical or emotional similarities that also share the fast come similarity I think is them not you