[33F] [36M] I found out today that I’m the other woman and my BF is married with a baby on the way
I feel like such a fool. I met this guy online just about a year ago, let’s call him Craig. We hit it off and started seeing a lot of each other, and it developed into us seeing each other almost every day.
I’ve stayed at his place plenty of times, and he has stayed at mine. I mean he came to my family’s house for Xmas eve and Xmas?! Which is why this is such a shock.
Today, I received a call when I was getting ready for work from a # I didn’t recognize, I decided to answer. A woman introduces herself as Craig’s wife.
At first, I thought it was some kind of prank, but she explained that she was 3 months pregnant and her husband had revealed to her last month that he was having an affair.
He told her he had ended it, but she realized after looking at his phone records and texts he did not, so she decided to give me a call.
She was very nice and kept saying she knew it was not my fault and I probably had no idea. As this was not his first indiscretion. I didn’t really say much on the call bc I was in complete shock.
I, of course, call my BF, and he starts crying and admits everything telling me he was only with me when he and his wife were on a break and figured it would lead to a hookup that he didn’t realize he would meet his soulmate.
He said he was planning on telling me, but there was never a good time, and when his wife revealed she was pregnant, he didn’t know what to do and figured he’d deal with it after the holidays.
I’m so disappointed and saddened by this. I thought he was the one. Now I have to tell my family that the man I brought to stay for the holidays is married with a baby on the way. How embarrassing.
He wants to come over tonight to talk in person. I told him no, but was that the right thing? Should I try to hear him out or end it? I don’t know what there is to talk about, but he’s blowing up my phone like crazy.
I did feel like he was my soulmate, but I don’t want to be the other woman, I want to be the woman.