I (f25) was in a relationship with my BF (m26) for the past 4 months, it started off great but became toxic fast as he started treating me really bad, and started acting/speaking badly towards me.
After that he would apologise, tell me how much he loves me, and how he won’t do it again.
Fast forward, 2 weeks ago, we broke up because he wanted to sleep with me and I refused because I wasn’t feeling well and we had a fight…
3 days ago, I’m at work and my colleague (f24) is speaking to me about my ex, and asks for a picture of us, I show her and her mouth drops, telling me that is her best friend’s boyfriend…
Turns out he’s also been in a relationship with her best friend (f24), however, they have had families involved, and how he was planning to propose to her end of this month…
My colleague asked me for proof of my relationship with him, so I send 200+ pieces of proof including call logs, texts, pictures together, all with dates and times…and her best friend responded to my colleague saying how she doesn’t believe me and that I faked all the proof…
I’m beyond devastated, at my ex’s deception the whole time throughout our relationship, and also the fact I shared personal intimate proofs with the colleague and her best friend, and am being called a liar….
then my colleague starts to say my ex never took me serious, was just using me as a time pass and it’s really her bestfriend that he wants, and just telling me to “suck it up” and move on…
as if my ex didnt spend 90% of his time with me in the 4 months with calls, texts and dates…it’s like all of that doesnt matter or exist?
He also spoke about marriage with me too, moving in plans, kids plans, big future plans…It doesnt help when my own friends are blaming me for this, saying it’s my fault I trusted him, I do take part blame for putting up with his disrespect but I did not deserve to be deceived like this…
I really dont know how to deal with this moving forward…Please any advices?…I’m not eating, sleeping, or working, or doing anything properly. I feel like I’ve fallen into a big black pit of depression and nobody cares.