I’m grossed out by my boyfriend’s hygiene.
Don’t get me wrong this man is sooooo good looking, love him to pieces he’s a great guy, but he can be pretty gross.
He showers once every 5-6 days (his least amount of time was 4 days.) he never takes care of the perfectly straight teeth he’s got, never brushes them his toothbrush has been the same one for 4+ months, he eats food that’s sat out in his room for 2-3 days in his room.
He works in manual labor so his hands are always dirty and dry which I understand however they still go unwashed.
He uses the same sponge for months to clean his dishes, he never cleans the garbage in his room and if there’s flies or ants he’ll just light a candle.
I love him but he needs to learn to take care of himself and not live like a dirt ball. I know I can be a clean freak myself but I am a firm believer taking a shower after working with dirt and dust and chemicals all day is not a lot to be expected from someone.
Netizens’ comments
- Man’s got a whole micro civilisation living in his body.
- As someone who’s in construction, I can’t even imagine not showering after getting home. Even if I f-ed off half the day.
- I’m grossed out by your boyfriend’s hygiene. And don’t be surprised by constant UTI’s or other infections if you’re intimate. Ewww.
- I’m grossed out by your acceptance of this. What in the hell could be attractive?!
- You’re allowed to pick your expectations up out of hell op. I promise you no matter how pretty this man is it will not be worth surviving in the literal petri dish that would be his home and body.
- I’m grossed out that you want to continue with someone who doesn’t shower or brush his teeth. Good luck with that.
- I don’t mean to sound harsh, I really don’t, but being willing to get intimate with someone whose hygiene is so nasty seems to indicate you don’t have a lot of self-respect or at least, don’t see your own self-worth.