I’m worried the age gap between me and my bf is weird. I’m the older one.
Although we are both young, people can tell that I am the older one and sometimes people give me the weird look.
I met my bf when he was 18, I was 21(turned 22 4 months later). There’s under 4yr age gap between us.
He’s 19 now, I turned 23 this month. We are at the same stages of life, I’m first year of University (he started Uni earlier than most and dropped out to do it elsewhere. He is going to army soon.
I did an extra year then changed courses hence starting again now).
I think that makes some difference at least? Because we are at same stages of life but of course we still have different experiences.
I didn’t think much about it before as when we first spoke I assumed he was 19. My mind makes me worried I’m a creep or something as I have always dated people same age as me before.
and feel like a hypocrite in a way maybe because whenever the roles were reversed I’d be concerned because the guy always ended up being weird/creepy and having odd intentions (in my experience from what I have seen)