FWB falls asleep after he finishes in me, mixed feelings
I’m a 28 y.o female, but I was raised conservatively so I didn’t know what it was like to have a FWB until very recently. I know this puts me far behind the curve, but it is what it is.
Even more recently I started letting him finish inside me, but every time he does that he falls asleep very fast.
He says it’s because it feels better this way and I love feeling and hearing him while he’s ejaculating, but immediately after he goes from super passionate/animalistic to fast asleep in a minute and I’m not sure how I feel about that
I don’t know how to bring this up without ruining the mood or honestly even what to say, to be honest he’s quite out of my league, he is mind blowing in bed compared to anything I’ve had before, so I don’t want him to distance himself from me. But I would be lying if I said it didn’t bother me at all…..
Netizens’ comments
- You mentioned it was mind blowing so it sounds like he’s at least pleasuring you too right? It would be different if he were selfish but it sounds like a good time. Many comments are saying “men are just like that” As a woman I’ve passed out after as well especially when it was too good and intense.
- Men metabolise oxytocin really quickly and the sensation after it’s been metabolised is fatigue. Take it as a compliment but it’s also biological.
- Be extremely proud of yourself! You knocked him out cold. That’s a good thing. He is not being insensitive as it is literally extremely draining. When he wakes up, he should be a soft and sweet teddy bear before Godzilla returns.
- You should take that as an incredible compliment. That being said what are you hoping to get out of him not falling asleep? Are you not getting satisfied and need more?
- If you don’t feel satisfied, you should set up a little system where he satisfies you first, through oral or otherwise.
- I actually came on top of my BF once, we were both a bit drunk and it was late. It ended up with me fallin asleep on top with him still inside (he had not finished and got compensated next day). It actually felt good and both of us felt it was a cosy experience. Is it because he is FWB that you don’t appreciate it since you become more intimate?