My (25F) fiancé (26M) left me alone while I was feeling unwell at a party and then got angry at me for asking my ex (26M) for help.
This happened last weekend during a party. I started feeling woozy and sick so I went to tell my fiancé because I wanted to go home. He never took me seriously and told me to just relax and sit down for a little while. He ended up finding me somewhere to sit and left me there to go hang out with his friends again.
I didn’t feel better, in fact I started to feel worse and I was starting to feel scared because I didn’t know what was happening to me. I felt like I was on the verge of a panic attack and I tried to find my fiancé again but there were too many people and I couldn’t see him. I did find my ex and his friends though.
I ended up going up to him and telling him I didn’t feel good. He and his friends tried to find my fiancé for me but they couldn’t find him anywhere so he ended up taking me home. I live with my older brother and sister-in-law, and my ex explained the situation to them including the fact that my fiancé left me alone and that they couldn’t find him after.
My fiancé came to see me the next day and my brother was so angry at him that he kicked him out after yelling at him, without letting him see me. Now my fiancé is angry at me for going to my ex for help and letting him lie about him. According to him, a friend of his saw me with my ex and it looked like I was “all over him”.
I feel angry at him too for just leaving me when I told him I wasn’t feeling well.
I don’t want to keep fighting about this but he doesn’t seem to think he did anything wrong since he said I didn’t make it clear I was feeling that bad. He said he would’ve taken me home if he realised how serious I was. I don’t know if I should just apologise so we can move past this or not.
What do you guys think? Should I? How else can we resolve this?