A netizen shared about how she hates having intercourse with her boyfriend but that she has to pretend to like it.
Here is the story:
I love my boyfriend but our intercourse is awful and I pretend it’s great.
I love him in every way, except when we sleep together. It gets painful sometimes, and I hate doing it from the back (he loves it).
I tried to tell him once but he smiled at me genuinely and said
“I know you’re lying, you’re just upset with me at the moment “.
I was upset with him about something unrelated to it and this was when I chose to to tell him, about the awful experience.
I haven’t mentioned it since.
Netizens comments
To be fair, if a woman was told she is horrible at intercourse and dry as the desert, she would be insecure about it too.
The reality is, men do say this to women whether true or not. Usually because their private parts are small and they aren’t good
The partner is everything though. I like sleeping with my partner, I thought I’d be a little less addicted to it the older I get, but nope.
I have almost a bottomless pit of patience though. Nearly a year I went without it. with my ex, but conversations around it came out negatively.
Had a similar convo with my wife the other night and it was a beautiful and constructive conversation.