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WOMAN FOUND OUT FIANCE TOLD HIS FRIENDS THAT HE THINKS SHE’S “TOO FAT”

A woman shared how her fiance has been talking behind her back and telling his friends that he thinks she’s “too fat”.

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Here is the story:

“My fiance told his friends that he thought I was too fat.

To these days I still consider meeting him to be the luckiest thing that ever happened to me. I have been a fat girl since I was a child. During puberty, I became heavier due to the many hormone medications I was taking. I have always had problems with body image anxiety.

When I met Neil, I was at a low point in my life. Two years after graduation, I still couldn’t find a decent job and was working three part-time jobs. When we started dating, we quickly moved in together, and although I covered most of the expenses, he kept trying to split the costs even though he didn’t have much income. He also encouraged me to go back to studying to get a better-paying job, so I went back and got my master degree.

I always thought our relationship was very strong and that we had each other’s backs. The biggest argument between us was before covid, I had an unplanned pregnancy and Neil wanted to keep the baby, but I was just starting out in a business and I didn’t think it was a good time to get pregnant, so I ended up opting for an abortion. He was reluctant but respected my decision. He mentioned the baby several times afterward. I’m sorry about that, but I don’t regret going through with the abortion. Other than this incident, we hardly had any conflicts.

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We got engaged last year and moved close to his parents. Since we moved there, he has been hanging out with his friends a lot. I was alone at home.

One day I met his friend’s wife while I was out and we spent some time in a cafe. She said, “I don’t know if I should tell you this, but Jiahao (Neil’s friend) said that Neil had said a lot of bad things about you in front of him. Neil says you’re too fat and selfish and there’s no point in getting another degree.”

I was shocked and confused because he had never said those words to me before. I was already fat when I met him, he was in great shape and went to the gym a few times a week, but he never asked me to lose weight. He also didn’t shame me when I talked to him about how I wanted to go get another degree.

Neil didn’t know I knew about it, he was still talking about the wedding and the house, and he told me he hoped I’d get pregnant soon because I owed him a baby. I have absolutely no idea how to handle this. Should I tell him I know all about it? I honestly love him so much and I don’t want to leave him.”

Editor’s note: Confront him about it.

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