Over glasses of wine a good friend of mine, who I met years ago through my husband, let me know a little “secret” that she and some of their friends had been keeping.
Evidently, after my husband and I slept together for the first time years ago on our third date, he told a few of them, his good friends (some male some female), that he had just had the best s– of his life. (That’s the good part)
These friends of course pried more details out of him about why it was so great, and evidently he told them some things about my body and my moves.
Just friendly banter, I get it. But of course we ended up getting married, and they had those details, and she said it’s all no big deal but sometimes they still tease him about it.
I even had a nickname for a while but that has been phased out now that I’m “official.”
Is this weird? These people are my friends and I feel a bit odd knowing there was this secret thing. But on the other hand it’s kind of silly/funny.
Curious what others think.
You guys only had three dates, he was in a way closer to his friends at the time than he was to you. It happens that people share these kind of details with their friends on this kind of occasion. It was probably a marvellous moment for him and he wanted to share it with his friends.
This seems to be a long time ago and it also seems that he hasn’t shared more recent details since.
It is just an anecdote, don’t overthinking too much. Your husband was happy, he shared his happiness with his friends and now his friends are so close to you that they share that story with you 🙂