A woman found out that the man that she hooked up with was actually lying about being married, and is considering telling his wife.
Here is the story
Dude straight up lied to me about being married. We hooked up. Now what?
Should I blow up his marriage or not?
I met this guy at a conference. I’m single (38F), was just chilling at a pub and he came onto me (came over, sat down next to me, very chatty, all drunk and flirty).
I am not looking for anything serious rn and he was cute, so we went back to my place (we didn’t sleep together, but we did plenty else, made out a lot then fell asleep together).
I had asked him multiple times if he was single/no gf/not married. He said he was single! We hung out a 2nd night, he was drunk again, I wasn’t drinking. I again asked if he was single, etc, and he again claimed he was… and this time we got intimate, and he slept over for the night.
Then after he left… I find his wedding band sitting on my bedroom floor. Apparently he had hidden it in his pocket, and it fell out when his pants were on my floor…
I don’t know his family. And I am sure he figured he was free and clear cheating on his wife.
But after I found out that he was married, (using the “power” of google search) I found his insta, his wife’s name, photos of his son, etc. I wasn’t the cheater, but I still feel bad….
Now… I’m not one to blow someone’s life up… so am I more of a jerk for not saying something to the wife and just leave it be? Or do I message her a pic of his wedding band and blow it up?