He left me cause I told him he’s bad in bed
Honestly I’m wondering if I did something wrong ..i had a conversation with my bf about his addiction to adult videos because he would waste all his energy on it.
and he was understanding then promised me to try and fix the problem, after that conversation we had several more because there was no effort to change himself.
a year later I had enough and was so frustrated cause to be honest he wasn’t satisfying me in bed at all at that point so I told him that he needs to stop watching those videos and pleasing himself because it’s affecting his performance badly and it’s tiring for me.
like what is the point of promising me then just not do anything about it? Felt like he was just wasting my time, plus I have needs , so I was honest cause there was no other options left.
He took it as if I am telling him he is not a man enough and broke up with me. I’m not sad tbh just confused ,, like why some men be so immature. And why men attach being amazing in bed to being a real man.
you can be a good real man yet be bad in bed and try your best to better your skills for your partner or maybe even you might have medical problems. I don’t see the correlation. Stop being time wasters.
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I’ve been there. My ex boyfriend watched adult videos everyday while at work, driving, even just sitting watching tv.
By the time him and I would attempt to get intimate in bed, I was easily the 1,000th woman he had seen that day. He became desensitized to seeing me. Our bedroom activities was garbage because of this.
When I brought it up he became incredibly defensive. Then he told me “maybe the reason I can’t do it with you is because I want kids and you don’t. So I know you’ll never give me what I want and it’s messing with my brain.”
I left him shortly after that.