Should I be more concerned about doing it raw?
I (27f) personally hate when guys wear condoms because it’s not enjoyable on my end (or theirs).
I have a lower body count of under 10 (was in long term relationships for the majority of the time) but I never had guys wear condoms when I hook up with them, including one night stands.
I was always on birth control which was my biggest fear.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve become much more paranoid of contracting an STD and now actively think about having to wear a condom even though I really don’t want to.
There’s a guy I’ve been considering sleeping with but I wouldn’t want to wear a condom.
Should I be more cautious with raw dogging it on a STD standpoint? What percentage of the time do you guys use a condom when you sleep around?
Netizens’ comments
- Friend please use em , otherwise you will worry
- On hookups…. 100% of the time… Been dating for a while and both test clean then we’ll talk about it.
- If you don’t want to protect yourself— go get tested together.
- If you don’t want to wear a condom, then both of you get tested for STDs before sleeping together. If not, then just stfu and wear one. Or just gamble with the risk of STDs, your choice.
- Always use condoms in the beginning or at the very least get freshly tested before sleeping together. I am not dissimilar to you in terms of needs, it’s why I’m on birth control, but still have to insist on a safety first approach
- STDs will be more uncomfortable than wearing protection, and if you’re unlucky, you probably will get an STD that’s incurable or even fatal, like HIV. Wear that latex.
- If you don’t care about your own safety, at least spare a thought for others.