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WOMAN HAVEN’T SLEPT WITH ANY MEN FOR 10 WHOLE YEARS, “HOW DO I END MY DRY SPELL”

I haven’t slept with anyone in 10 years, and feel nothing but emptiness.

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Looking for advice or suggestions on how to end the dry spell, I just wanted to get it off my chest as I have never discussed this with anyone.

I’m 35, and I haven’t had intercourse in 10 years. In general it doesn’t really bother me, and it’s not something that crosses my mind very often. But I do wonder if I’m missing out.

Do I pleasure myself? Yeah of course, but the frequency is decreasing. It was most days at one point, but now it’s once or twice a week. It just feels like a chore, and quite frankly, I talk myself out of it.

Do I want to get with someone? Meh, sounds like it’s more effort than it’s worth.

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Emptiness is the only way I can describe it, as if I am lacking a basic human function. It is what it is I guess.

Netizens’ comments

  1. I think you speak to a counselor and not rely on people on a social media site. A professions can get you into a better mind set . Good Luck
  2. From my own experience, and listening to others speak on the topic, it seems the longer a person goes without it, the easier it is to deal with and the more that drive decreases.
  3. Sending you a hug. Hoping you can get some human connection and help break you out of this spell.
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