I look younger than my age, and I’m attracting younger men. I feel absolutely horrible about it
But this is also something that I’m seeing on my limited social media presence that other women in their 30’s are going through.
I look like I’m in my maybe early 20’s I’m hearing from people but I’m in my mid 30’s and 19/20 year old boys are CHASING me.
When I was that age boys barely paid attention to me and now I can’t get them to leave me alone. I feel so horrible because it’s so inappropriate for them and I don’t get it?
Is this a phase that guys go through? Is this something that this particular generation is going through? Maybe I’m personally just glowing up or something and randomly attracting younger guys? It feels like a mess.
Because I’m in a phase where I want to get married and have kids and I’m searching for stability and I associate that with older guys.
And I especially want these younger men to have their freedom and enjoy these wild days like I’m an older lady now chill OUT
Netizens’ comments
If a guy thinks a woman looks hot, he’s not going to care how much older she is than him. Pete Davidson was in his 20s and dated Kim Kardashian who is her 40s with four children.
A lot of attractive women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s could hook up with younger guys. Some women have already had the “fairytale wedding” in their 20s and divorce by mid 30s and they’re looking to enjoy their newfound freedom.
Age isn’t always an indicator where one is in life. Some people are “late bloomers”. The role of the man in most cultures is to pursue or initiate contact with women. Ultimately it comes down to what the woman wants whether she will say “yes” or “no”.
Eventually most women live to see the day where men aren’t hitting on them. You are entitled to have your own mate selection screening process and must haves list. You are entitled to have your own “red flags”, boundaries, and “deal breakers”.
It’s not about who is attracted to you as much as it is who you are attracted to. Nothing happens until you say “yes” to someone. Being attractive is never a “bad thing”. Some women and men actually find love and marriage through dating age gaps.