Me and parter have two kids. We are currently in a bad financial situation and living with my mother-in-law.
He goes out with friends regularly, regardless of funds and if we can afford it. Recently I had to pay a really important bill alone because he spent his entire portion drinking with friends.
I have no access to his bank account, I have no idea where his money goes and any time I try and talk to him about how he spends his money it turns into a fight. Today he informed me he’s going drinking again. I asked how he was paying for that and he said he would be I said we couldn’t afford and his response was to demand how I would know that.
We had an argument and he said he could afford to spend X amount of money and I said clearly not considering I had to pay your portion of the bills he said something along the lines of “I actually work for my money” and left. I don’t think I’m in the wrong.
Here are what netizens think:
- Get out of this relationship as soon as possible.
- Sounds like you married a pig that only eats and drink and has zero care for the world.
- Take the kids and run, go file for whatever you need to file and make sure its the end of it.