Moved in with bf and his hygiene has gone down hill
I (27, f) have been with my bf (26, m) for 2 years. We moved in together in 2021 for about 9 months but the place ended up having issues (not our fault) and we got out of the lease.
Then a couple months after we moved back in together in a new place and Im noticing he’s really not brushing his teeth or bathing.
He’s not big on skincare either but this is most men so w/e. When we lived together the first time I didn’t notice as much because he was working from home and sometimes wouldn’t leave the home for a couple days then when he was gonna leave, he would shower prior.
Now he has a more physically demanding job (his choice) and it’s gotten worse. He’s always either running late for work (he leaves at 4 am) or too tired from work (he gets back around midday) to brush his teeth or shower.
The most he’ll do, because I insist, is wash his feet in the bath (they have an odor) when he gets home.
I really don’t know what to do without being mean I don’t notice B.O. but I do notice the bad breath. I have to pretty much yell for him to do either but at this point it’s been a week no shower and like 2 days not brushing his teeth.
What can I do? When we were dating he ofc always smelled good like cologne and mouth wash.