Spending time alone more than with friends
Abit random here but anyone else also, generally speaking, enjoys spending time alone and doing activities alone more than with friends?
For my case, I’m married but don’t hv much social life w my friends. I can’t seem to find people who wish to pursue same hobbies as myself too, which is partly why I end up doing them myself.
I no longer contact my primary, JC friends and almost all of the uni friends. These friendships did not really start off right and I didn’t do my part to bond with them.
I was feeling insecure in the past due to skin n some health issues so I didn’t give off the friendly vibes even though we were in the same ‘clique’.
For now, I do meetup with the v few friends I hv whom I got to know while working but not too often as my friends seem to be busy too. I have come to a point where I’m so comfortable dining out alone and even in cafes.
I feel happy to be able to eat what I want and not accommodate others preferences. Deep down, I also feel so liberated that I don’t hv to socialize and network with people anymore in my new job.
Jus wondering if anyone can relate to this? I feel so at ease with doing alot of stuff alone, but at times i also wonder if this is abit abnormal lol