Not giving back my engagement ring to dead fiancé family? Dead fiancé name “John” & I’ll start at the beginning, about 4yrs ago.
I was engaged to John, after dating for 4yrs. When he proposed, the ring he used was 2 sizes too big. We went to the store, that he bought it from (2 weeks before proposing) & he kept the receipt.
Gotten the right size & kept same style. We did plan to have to wedding, after 3yrs of planning & saving. 10 months after the proposal, John passed away in a car accident. I used the savings for wedding to pay for his funeral.
The day after the funeral, John’s brother came to me asking for the ring. I asked why, his response was that the ring had been passed down their family for 5 generations.
Told him that was BS, because I have proof of the ring was brought for me, less than a year ago. We argued for a bit & he then stormed out.
Then I get the calls from john’s family, saying I’m a liar & demanding the ring. Then I got a letter from their lawyer, in the letter they also demanded that I reimburse them for costs of John’s funeral.
We ended up going back and forth through our lawyers and I managed to keep the ring.
I thought that madness was over, until john’s sister recently messaged me. She & her BF are engaged, but haven’t gotten a ring & she wants John’s ring.
After I said no, she went crazy & messaging non stop demanding. I have blocked her over & over, but she finds a way around it.
I was having brunch with my friend, my mobile was on the table, a message from sister popped up & my friend saw it. My friend knows about everything, before sister’s 1st message.
I explained about her messages, friend believes I’m AH & I should give her the ring. She told my other friends & they are all saying the things. Now I’m doubting myself.