Earlier today, I (28F) wore a tank top and sweat pants while lounging around the house, just watching TV and doing a puzzle on the coffee table.
It’s the weekend, so my step son doesn’t have school and was just in the house, doing his own thing.
We crossed paths a couple of times but weren’t hanging out. Nature happened, and my “little girls” got hard. I know, what a horror.
My husband (34M) says it was inappropriate for me not to wear a bra with a tight shirt on while his son is home.
Mind you, I usually don’t wear a bra. Not even in public. When I do, it’s a bralette that you can still see my nips through if they get hard, so it wouldn’t have made much of a difference.
I guess it’s just that this was a tight tank top, although it was high neck, so there wasn’t cleavage (not that I have much anyway).
I asked my husband if his son had said anything to him about it; if he said he was uncomfortable about it, I might have changed my shirt.
But he said no, his son hadnt said anything, but that he (my husband) noticed it right away and didnt want his son to see, and he asked me to go put a looser t shirt on instead.
I said no, this is my body in its natural state, I’m not doing anything wrong, inappropriate, by existing in my own home.
It’s not like my shirt is see-through. It’s a normal tank top. I told him that if he’s worried about his teenage son’s perception of my body and perhaps his inappropriate thoughts, maybe he should have a conversation with HIM, not me.
I didn’t change my shirt, my husband’s mad at me and hasn’t spoken to me since (I’m assuming he won’t until I change), and he says I’m being an a-hole for not changing my shirt and choosing to “show off my body to his kid.” His son doesn’t even seem to have noticed to be honest.