A Singapore woman has gone public with a shocking story of an eight-year affair with a married man, exposing his repeated infidelity and igniting heated discussions online.
The 35-year-old woman shared that her relationship with the 34-year-old man involved multiple betrayals, including sexual relationships with other women. She revealed that she had even contracted a sexually transmitted disease from him years ago but forgave him repeatedly after he promised to divorce his wife—promises that were never fulfilled.
The affair finally ended after she shared her story in a private online group for women, designed to expose unfaithful men and warn others. The post drew numerous responses, with other women claiming they had seen the man’s profiles on multiple dating platforms.
I would like to contribute the story:
“I (35f) was with this guy (34m) for 8 years and I have been a 3rd party in this relationship with him for 8 years. Actually come to think about it, I am probably not the only 3rd party as he has been largely involved with many other girls, holding a sexual relationship. I had contacted STD from him years ago due to his infidelity with multiple partners and i had chose to forgive him again and again throughout the 8 years. He even repeatedly promised me that he will divorced with the wife but up till date, he didnt do it.
Our relationship has officially comes to an end, after i exposed his infidelity in a private woman’s ask group. Of course there are supportive and negative comments as expected. But what is more shocking is that, there are multiple woman stepping and expose that seeing his profile across multiple dating platforms.
Now came the plot twist, the wife of my ex, openly admitted that she is the wife and even said the husband (aka my ex) is currently seeing another married woman now too.
many asked, why she still stay with this kind of husband despite knowing his infidelity, she only look at the money.
So ladies out there, please open your eyes wide and see.. this lesson proves that a leopard will never change its spots.”
Man’s wife in comment section
In a surprising twist, the man’s wife also commented in the discussion, confirming her identity and stating that her husband is now involved with another married woman. Online commenters questioned why she stayed in the marriage, with some suggesting financial reasons may be at play.
For those navigating online dating and modern relationships, the story highlights crucial lessons on trust issues, relationship red flags, and the potential dangers of ignoring infidelity. Experts in relationship advice often stress the importance of recognising manipulative behaviour early, maintaining personal boundaries, and protecting oneself from emotional and health risks in long-term affairs.
The woman warned others to stay vigilant, saying: “A leopard never changes its spots.” Her story has since gone viral within the group, sparking a wider conversation about trust, infidelity, and the consequences of prolonged dishonesty in relationships.
This incident serves as a reminder of the risks involved in long-term affairs and the importance of transparency in relationships, drawing attention from women and men alike who are navigating trust and commitment in the modern dating world.