I’ve been contemplating for the past 12h what to do and how to handle this situation. It was my fault for having unprotected S and being promiscuous, and I get that. The woman told me when we were together it was impossible for her to get pregnant, we had fun for a few days and I had not thought much about it. I am now notified that she is pregnant 2 months later and that she wants to keep the baby. She told me that she is totally flexible to whatever I wanted to do since I never planned to have a kid. If I was to infer, I think she wants a kid and had told me she had a couple miscarriages before.
I think I had the closest thing to having a panic attack. Part of me wishes this had never happened as this wasn’t planned. Idk if or how to break it to my parents the possibility of having a kid with someone I’ve only met a couple of times and whom I do not really know.
Coming from a traditional household, I don’t know how my mom would take it. I feel like my life is over. I’m turning to the internet as it’s the only way I can talk about my feelings now. I can already imagine all the judgment coming from friends and family. I feel so scared and alone right now. It’s been hard to think about anything else at the moment and I’ve been holed up in my room.
I honestly don’t know what to do, and am looking for any sort of advice.
I will first request a paternity test before anything else and will update
I’m still new to all this and am looking how soon a test can be taken
update: I’m going to take a break for a few hours. Logging off now, thank you for all the replies, I’m really grateful for all the messages of encouragement.