I (F) get really turned on by guys’ balls, but this makes me feel self-conscious and I don’t know how to feel comfortable with it
I (F) would say that the part of a guy’s body that turns me on the most is usually his balls. But I feel kind of self-conscious about it, because no one ever talks about this (i.e. women being into a guy’s balls) as if it’s a thing.
When my friends and I talk about such things, I feel too self-conscious to bring this up, because it just doesn’t feel like there’s a cultural framework via which I can articulate it.
I’m even hesitant to share this with my boyfriend, at least to its full extent. I would really love to fully embrace this as a major part of myself and feel comfortable doing so, but it’s a challenge for me to share it with other people, which seems like a major part of expressing oneself.
Are there other women who get especially turned on by guys’ balls? And if so, does anyone have thoughts on why there’s so little representation of this dynamic in the culture (like literally none)?
Or maybe I really am very unusual in this particular way, which I guess would also be good to know lol.
Netizens’ comments
- I’m not a women, but my partner is and she’s obsessed with my balls, I love it
- Completely normal.
One of my exes loved mine. She played with them, touched them, stared at them, etc.
It was awkward for me at first just because I wasn’t used to it. But then I got used to it.
If you like/want something always communicate. - You probably don’t see media that portrays this because the vast majority of such media is created by men and they’re extremely proud of their shaft instead.