WOMAN SAYS SHE’S DOING BF A FAVOR BY GIVING BIRTH, AFTER THAT “OBLIGATION COMPLETE”

I don’t think want to marry this girl.

I’m getting married on two months. And this week I think all the red flags I ignored seem to be hitting me in the face.

Firstly, since we got engaged she has become obsessed with finding conflict in my family and trying to get me to always take her side. I’ve already had two serious allegations between her and my family. They removed their blessing and I had to fight to get it back.

Secondly, she seems to think that it’s having a kid is a favour for me and once she gives birth her obligation is complete and she has no financial obligation. She claims that it’s on me after that.

She earns 6 figures and wants to carry on working but only contribute to the mortgage and not the child’s financial status. AND I just finished school and made a career change so I’m literally earning half as much as her at this point.

I’m seriously lost as things seem to be going from bad to worse.

Netizens’ comments

1. When in doubt, get out
2. When in doubt, pull out.
3. Don’t put it in and we all win!
4. When uncertain, close the curtain.
5. When there’s heat, just beat your meat.
6. When in doubt go without.
7. When in doubt, go to her mom and shout
8. When in doubt, jump out
9. When I’m doubt, send her out!
10. I don’t think I want you to marry this girl.
11. You guys should be in agreement about the financial situation before marrying 100%. A lot of women want to be stay at home mothers, alot want careers, that should be something that’s discussed before marriage/kids. I always said If I ever had kids, I wouldn’t work either afterwards, but that’s something that needs to be discussed.
12. If you’re getting married realistically who’s paying for what shouldn’t be such an issue, you guys are a team, but again this needs to be discussed with her then.
    If you’re planning to have a kid that’s not something to leave up in the air. Are you guys going to split parenting duties/housework 50/50? Is she taking maternity leave or are you? These things are serious decisions that need to talked about between the two of you. And if they don’t add up, you aren’t meant to be together.