I’m in love with my boss and he has a wife
I have read so much about office romance. Is it really very common?
Unfortunately I was involved in it as well, with my boss, and have let his strong initial affections get the better of me.
He makes me feel so loved and protects me at work & outside of work.
But because of obvious reasons, he had stated upfront that there wouldnt be a future between us, but we still continued the relationship anyway for a year.
He had since left the company and I am worried that he will have another office romance with other woman at his new workplace, and it doesnt help knowing that his whole team are all females.
Prior to being with him, he had been close with alot of females in our office. I think he might not have crossed the line with them, but he allowed them to lean on him, hold him and get really close with him.
I know I am not in the position to be worried about it. His wife should be the one feeling uneasy, if she knows how her husband’s super outgoing personality is.
As for myself, I have no justifications for my actions. I fall in love easily, I enjoyed the attention and affection given.
But I do regret being a 3rd party for a period of time especially when I know how good their relationship is.
That’s why I am also very upset knowing how he treated other females previously (and even when I was with him) and since this is how his character is, there is a high chance of another office romance at his new workplace.
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- Sleeping with a married boss can create a host of problems. You could be putting your job at risk, as well as jeopardizing the reputation of your boss and his or her family.
If the affair is discovered, it could lead to legal action, public embarrassment, and damage to your career and personal relationships.
Regardless of how you choose to handle the situation, take the opportunity to reflect on what you’ve learned.
Consider the factors that led you to engage in the affair and how you can make better choices in the future. Use this experience as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement.