I recently became really insecure about my looks due to some physical changes that have made me feel a lot uglier. Suddenly a coworker twice my age wanted “to try something” and put his hands around my waist. I first thought he was making a joke because I couldn’t imagine how he could even think there was an attraction on my side.
But he was serious. This always seems to happen. Whenever I feel bad about myself creepy guys come up to me, either talking stuff that would make anyone uncomfortable or getting touchy-feely. However, whenever I’ve felt good about myself, it’s was mostly genuinely nice guys who approach me.
Did anyone else notice the same? Is it because they think insecure women are an easy target? Or that “ugly” women would take them because they wouldn’t have a chance with anyone else?
(To make it clear: I’m not talking about the looks of the guys. I’m not complaining about getting approached by “ugly” guys. I’m complaining about guys that don’t respect boundaries.)
Here are what netizens think:
Alot of guys they no confident, they see pretty girl they diam diam
ya loh, I know what you mean. Then the girl who is not so confident becomes a tool for the guy to jeer on.
Get a life, what can you do about it?