In a surprising turn of events, a young woman took to an online platform to share her distress after discovering that her boyfriend had been untruthful about his virginity. The couple, dating for over a year, had built a foundation of trust that was recently shaken when the boyfriend’s admission came to light.
Background: A Year of Believed Virginity
The woman began her relationship with the belief that her boyfriend was a virgin, a fact he allegedly disclosed even before they officially started dating. This revelation initially brought her comfort, as she felt less self-conscious about her own limited romantic experience.
Unearthing the Truth: A Conversation Unveils Deception
Recently, the woman probed into her boyfriend’s past experiences through explicit conversations. To her surprise, he revealed that he had engaged in intimate activities with previous girlfriends, directly contradicting his claim of being a virgin.
Emotional Turmoil: Unsettled by Deception
While the woman expressed that she wasn’t necessarily upset about not being her boyfriend’s first, she was deeply disturbed by the revelation of his long-standing deception. The idea of her boyfriend lying about his history since the beginning of their relationship raised questions about trust and honesty.
The Netizen’s Post
my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and ever since before we started dating he’s told me that he’s a virgin and that i’d be his first, and the thought made me happy since i had never even kissed a guy before so i guess i felt like at least he’s a tiny bit inexperienced so i won’t feel bad about me being inexperienced.
then a few days ago i was asking about if he’s done what we do (explicit texting and stuff like that) with girls before me, and he said that he hasn’t cause he just did things in person with them. i wasn’t surprised by this, i’ve already known about him doing stuff with a past girlfriend, but when i asked more about it i found out that he’s been lying about being a virgin.
i wanted to know more about it but he said he felt uncomfortable about it so i dropped it and went to bed. but all night i was thinking about it. i wasn’t upset that i wasn’t going to be his first, i was just upset that he’s been lying about it since i met him.
like why would you lie about that? i’ve been thinking that maybe he didn’t tell me cause he felt bad that i was super inexperienced and wanted me to feel better about it, but then that thought led to does he pity me for not having done anything?
idk if i should be upset about this cause i feel a bit upset but he said he doesn’t want to talk about it again cause he said it’s weird to talk about past girlfriends, which i understand. i just don’t get why he’d lie, cause now im wondering what else he’s lying about in our relationship.”