I was told over and over that women 30+ are unattractive and unwanted. Why am I still getting hit on when I’m almost 40?
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Was promised by many men that by 30 no man will look at me or be attracted to me because I’ll be ugly, unattractive, fat, disgusting, old, etc. Literally been told this stuff since I was in my 20s.
I’m almost 40 and honestly guys have a super hard time being able to tell my age and I get approached by randoms a lot. My husband has no trouble being attracted to me and our intimate life is pretty damned active.
I feel confused, why have men been lying to me for so long?
Netizens’ comments
- My mom’s 66 and she’s got not one, not two, but Three men fighting over her. Has for, like, over a year (for years before that it was just two of them). Two are quite a bit younger than her and both sickeningly attractive. The third is a wealthy retired doctor who buys her diamonds. Go mom lmfao.
- I’m 40 and I’ve been banging an unbelievably hot guy who is 7 years my junior. Middle aged women are hot af and that terrifies a good deal of men
- I don’t know who these men were but they sound like idiots and I don’t even know why you really paid much attention to what they said?
I mean for me personally I think my attractiveness peaked from 30 to late 30s, everyone’s different, its just another example of some men trying to make women feel insecure and inferior. - That’s not true at all. My mom is in her 50s and men (younger and older) still hit on her/buy her drinks while SHES DINING WITH MY DAD.
- I have no idea but the woman I’m set on marrying is 12 uears my senior and I couldn’t be happier. I mean 22 and 34 isn’t bad for an age gap right? I think it might just be the maturity level they’re looking for isn’t the same as the level you’re looking for. They might want someone more naïve.