How do I ask men to moan for me without sounding like a pervert?
So far my male hookups seem to not be entirely at ease while doing the deed (understandably so since we’re not that familiar).
I know they’re definitely enjoying it, they’re actively participating making a lot of first moves- but the moans aren’t as frequent as I want them to be.
It’s not silent but I want moreeeee. How do I ask to hear more of those lovely sounds?
Im scared I come off a bit too strong(they make all the first moves but I enjoy taking the leas) and I don’t want to emasculate(or make them uncomfortable) them by asking them to moan for me.
Should I just wait until we get to know each other more and hope they’ll be more vocal? Are guys insecure about their voice during intercourse?
Netizens’ comments
- Any time they make any noise give them positive reinforcement: “god, your moans turn me on so much” “it’s so hot to hear you whimper like that” etc.
- I told my guy one time that I love to hear him moan and make noises, and ever since then, he’s really cranked it up. Sometimes it helps to talk about things like that when you’re not in the throws of passion.
- I tend to tell them I really enjoy their moans and if they aren’t too dense they usually get the hint and end up moaning more. It usually doesn’t come naturally to them, so they need to be encouraged.
- Just straight up say that it turns you on to hear them.
It’s not something I did when I was younger, until I was a lot more comfortable in expressing myself in bed, and until some women told me they really loved that I was vocal.
Since then I’ve never held back and it’s almost universally been positively commented on.
So just tell him you want to hear him.