I am aware that I acted unfairly in this situation. I‘m not expecting my friend to act like my babysitter and be there for me 24/7.
I just wish she would have cared a little more. (I have known my friend since we were kids and we have always been close.
I‘m currently going through a really tough time (depression and a close family member affected by severe illness). My (best) friend is aware of that and knows, that I don‘t have many other friends to be there for me. I texted her a few months ago, telling her about the illness – she told me she was sorry and that she hopes it will get better.
I haven‘t heard from her for a few weeks/months after that (she was still posting on Instagram, partying with her other friends, going on holiday. e.g.). I then texted her again, asking if she wanted to hang out. She then got back to me a month later like “Oh so sorry, I was very busy. How are you?“. I just answered, “Nevermind“ (which I know was unfair and I wish I could take it back). She got very protective. When I told her that I was just very sad that she didn‘t get back to me and really needed her she stopped answering.
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