I wanna start an argument with my partner for sharing food with random women.
So the title is a bit out of context, but let me explain. My partner is a very charming guy and I love the fact that many people get along with him easily. He is hilarious and usually has a whole table of people laughing. I love this and I know he does too.
We’ve been together for a long time (10+ years). And throughout the years we’ve had many dinners and lunches with friends. Though it’s not uncommon for someone (usually woman) to ask for some of his food or his drink and it’s also not uncommon for them to offer him theirs. But the issue I have is that they never ask for some of my food or offer me theirs.
He never notices this and I thought I was overthinking so I never said anything. However recently I’m starting to notice it’s bugging me more than usual and I don’t know if I’m just being weird or if I should tell him it makes me uncomfortable.
For some additional context, we have a small circle of really close friends that all share each others food and drinks (which includes 2 other women) but I don’t feel this way with them. Maybe because they include me. These other women I feel uncomfortable him sharing with aren’t particularly close to either me or him. It will usually be a colleague of mine, or a mutual friend, or a classmate. Who we hang out with sporadically (a few times a year) or for the first time.
Will it be bad if I bring it up at this point or should I just let it go?