His son is 17 and his life is completely male. He has no female friends, he goes to an all-boys school which pretty much is an entirely male staff, was raised by just his dad, they don’t have any female family members that they talk to etc, I’m the only woman in his life and he hates me.
I asked his son doesn’t he want to have girls in his life and he responded “why would I? What are they gonna do differently?”. Is that not concerning?
Not to mention he’s invested into male social and legal issues, he’s not as of yet saying misogynistic things but talking about male issues puts you on that path, and he was pretty badly victimized by his dad’s previous girlfriend so that could affect his potential dislike, even hatred for women & girls.
I brought these things up to my husband and it started an argument.
He said I was calling his son an incel, called me misandristic for saying talking about male issues puts you on a bad path, and said his son just doesn’t happen to have women or girls in his life and that’s fine, said his son dislikes me for things like this.
I guess being a step mother is not so easy, trying to show concern but both my husband and his son take it for granted and told me not to meddle in their affairs.
We’re still arguing about it, Should I not be concerned?