I (F30) met my BF’s (M27) other girlfriend at the hospital. Had no idea she existed before today.
My boyfriend was involved in an accident last night. Only got to know about it a few hours later and he was sketchy about the hospital he was in. Fortunately I quickly figured out where he was.
Went to see him at the hospital, he was inside with his brothers and friends. There was a girl sitting outside her room who kept measuring me up.
BF was about to be transferred to another hospital for surgery and as we were walking out, the girl made a point to introduce herself. Out of shock, I just said i’m his friend but I could see she suspected.
She got into the car with the brothers and they followed the ambulance. I just drove home. Didn’t talk to the BF as he was unconscious when they wheeled him out.
Thinking of just blocking him on everything, but I also feel bad should I not check up on him after surgery. I’m just heartbroken and confused.
What would you guys do?
Update: So I texted the guy, he hasn’t read it yet. The text summarised said “I met X, I won’t be coming to the hospital as you obviously won’t need me. Your gf will be there for you.” and a bit more about the lies.
Then I blocked him. I don’t know if there will be any update after this as I don’t see where the story can possibly go.
A quick search on the internet about his injuries showed he will be recovering for the next 4 to 6 months as he has a broken femur. We work on the same premises, but different companies, so maybe there will be one when he gets back to work
Netizens’ comments
- Sounds like you are the side chick. Move on. Especially since the other girl got in the car with the brothers. It’s a terrible way to find out.
- I mean, if he had another girlfriend, I think that overrides the need for you to check on him. He’s looked after better than he deserves.
Ghosting him would be best. You know all you need to know for that. I’m sorry you’re going through this.