My (F27) boyfriend (M32) only tahan a minute – should he do more?
As the title describes, my (F27) boyfriend (M32) after 1 minute or 2-3 mins if he takes breaks… It’s been like this for the whole time I’ve known him, so nearly two years. There was a short period where it improved for a bit, and he could maybe last for 4-5 mins, but this was short-lived.
What I experience is that he doesn’t seem eager enough to solve it. I have only brought it up 3 times as I’ve noticed it’s a very sensitive topic for him (understandably) and he’s very well aware that it’s a problem. He doesn’t quite know why he always settles too soon, but is also too shy to go to the doctor for it.
He recently stated he’s read upon the matter online but that there are no straight-forward solutions.
This is too vague of a response for me, is it fair of me to expect him to find a solution for this? I have been super patient but after all this time there is no improvement and I’m getting frustrated after having been quite lucky with my partners in the past.
How do you even get satisfaction with just 1 minute of action?
Netizens’ comments
- Reading up means nothing if there’s no practical application or result. He should go to a doctor who might be able to offer legitimate resources and options.
But to the above, he needs to do his in the sheets work as well. More time entertaining you before he entertains himself seems like the obvious approach. As said, he’s got tools at his disposal to do so other than with his peen. I’d recommend he focus on that pre-game. - Not unreasonable to expect him to take in an interest in addressing it. Just be sensitive about it. Maybe write him if it’s hard to talk about?
- He has a tongue and hands doesn’t he?