WOMAN’S BF PUT INSIDE & PUMP 3 TIMES FINISH ALREADY, FASTER THAN “THE FLASH”

My (30F) BF (30M) finishes almost instantly

Some background: So we got together quite recently, technically still in honeymoon phase. Seems my libido is much higher than his.

That is not the issue, I’m fine with solo play when we don’t see each other. However when we do get together and the conditions make for a good opportunity to be intimate he seems hesitant even though he gets hard easily.

Now I suspect it is because he knows that he won’t last very long. At first we blamed it on his not getting intimate for a very long time but the situation repeats.

The only two times I managed to finish was riding him and it was either second time or in the morning. It doesn’t mean it’s a success because sometimes he just goes soft before I even get to sit on him..

Or if I do he almost immediately finishes. We tried missionary and he also was done in three thrusts.

I’m at the end of the rope here because he doesn’t really try to finish me off in any way. I feel like he’s sort of ashamed or disappointed with himself. I’ve never made him feel bad for it, I get it, stuff happens but kind of work with me here?

So people, especially men – how do I approach this topic to come up with a solution? Pun very much intended

I don’t want him to stress over it, that won’t help in any way, but we need a happy ending to this story… oh dear I did it again lol!

Yours sincerely,

A VERY FRUSTRATED WOMAN

Netizens’ comments

1. Is the bigger problem how quickly he finishes or that he doesn’t do anything for you? I ask because I’ve seen some women post that they don’t really mind when the guy finishes quickly as long as he’s willing to satisfy them some other way.
   Even if the quick finishing is a problem for you, I would start by talking with him about needing to keep doing things for you even if he’s finished. That’s just an essential part. It’s not over until both people are satisfied (or say they want to stop).
   It’s possible that once you’ve worked on that, the other problem will get at least somewhat better too.
2. Get him to make sure you get yours first, then even if it’s only 3 seconds, you can both be satisfied.
   Most guys who are known for being good in bed make sure the woman gets off at least once before them. You just need to figure out what you 2 can do together to make that happen.