Partner puts up cameras and I’m not completely OK with the idea
My partner (35m) over the course of our relationship has tried to put up cameras in the house on a few different occasions.
Personally, I don’t really like them. I (33f) work from home and don’t want to be watched, which he will sometimes do.
I know this because there’s a talking option and sometimes he will say something to me, through the camera, randomly throughout the day. I don’t like that lol.
The camera set up in our living room started when we overseas over the weekend. My dad was over to bring our baby to daycare and watch over our older boys before they left for the day/evening.
He was obsessed, watching the camera so much. Literally just watching my dad and the kids walk around hanging out.
It was really weird. I didn’t like that and I thought it was invading my dads privacy who was doing something nice for us (we wouldn’t have been able to go away otherwise).
Now that we are back, the camera is still up. I unplugged it this morning and went back to the kitchen to see it plugged in again.
He knows I don’t like it. He had one in our room a few months ago and I told him to stop trying to put them up. Of course, I have nothing to hide, I just don’t like the idea.
Also want to add that he won’t let me have the app to the camera, he told me only one user is allowed which I think is BS