Does anyone have traditional parents that still think that daughters are useless?
My father just said to my face that even if I have a child after getting married, he does not consider it his grandchild since daughters do not carry on the surname.
Honestly I’ve never really cared much about him but I don’t understand what’s his problem.
My brother is estranged from the family and does not talk to any of us. Hence my father says that he does not have a “heir” and that my children will not be considered his grandchildren.
My mother used to be the same, but since my brother has stopped talking to them; she’s pressuring me to hurry up and get pregnant lmao.
I’ve done everything for my parents when I lived with them, their laundry, grocery shopping, cooking for them, making sure everything in the house is clean. Yet they’ve always cared or placed more importance on my brother because he’s a son.
So my father has always said that cleaning and cooking is the woman’s job, so he’s never done it and doesn’t intend to. I don’t know he’s kinda sexist and annoying.
When I was younger, I asked him to buy sanitary pads for me since he was going to the grocery store and he flipped out at me. Going on about a huge rant about how he’s a MAN and how I’m trying to embarrass him by buying “disgusting products”.
It’s 2023, he still thinks like that, I frankly think it’s quite lame. I’ve asked all of my friends, they said their fathers are different and they don’t have this mindset.
Sometimes I feel jealous of them because I’ve seen how nice their fathers are
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Parents who still have a mindset from the dinosaur age should just go extinct lol. Tbh, if I have that kind of parents, I’ll lose contact asap. No point arguing those types since they will always want to win one.
One day if they have major illness or whatever, don’t come crawling to you and ask for forgiveness or whatever.
Your brother stopped talking with your parents due to this shit? Or something else?