My fiance (34m) has been a bachelor until he met me 3 years ago. He’s had many girlfriends but never really settled down until he wanted to get married last year.
We live together and he has a desktop computer that he has said I’m welcome to use as I (32f) please. I’m working from home now (I have a company laptop) but needed to print something so I hopped on his desktop.
He was at work. I was taken aback when the browser he was using last night was still up and it was open to Facebook and on his ex’s Facebook page.
I know i shouldn’t have done this but curiosity got the best of me and I looked at his Facebook search history.
Just about every ex I’m aware of (and many women I do not know) were in the Facebook search bar. I clicked browser history and he had spent hours doing this while I had been asleep the night before.
I did approach him that night once he got home and he said he felt the need to look through all his ex’s old pics to make sure he was making the right decision marrying me.
He said I shouldn’t be upset because after all that he knows for sure I’m the right girl for him.
These ex’s went as far back as his school girlfriend! And many of these women are married with kids now. He said he understands why I’m sad but this is something all men probably do.
Is this something that men do? I’m considering calling off my wedding. I’m hurt.