My fiancé’s family treat me like an outsider and it drives me mad
I have been with my fiancé for 8 years, he himself is absolutely amazing very caring and makes me feel loved. But his family has always made me feel unwanted and its not just in my head as they have said it to my face before.
I’m never invited to any family events even when they want my fiancé to attend, but always want to know everything that goes on in mine and my fiancé’s life they want me to include them in everything or they start guilt tripping him.
My family on the other hand have welcomed my fiancé from the first day they met him and he has said he’s never felt loved and welcomed by anyone the way they make him feel.
He has told me that he hates how his family treats me but he never does anything about it, he still has to attend all his family events without me.
And as silly as it sounds even the WhatsApp family group I was excluded from even though my fiancé’s brother has included his girl in it (who has only been with him for a couple of years).
My family immediately added him to our groupchat to make sure he’s included in all our plans, holidays, events etc.
Anytime I say I want to treat his family the way they treat me he gets sad about it and start telling me thats his family and all that crap.
I feel like I will always have to compromise on my side and just deal with their crap.
Any advice on what I should do? Is it petty that I don’t want to include them in my life?