I think my FWB might have a new girlfriend
We’ve been FWBs for around a year and a half now I think. Yesterday I got on Facebook, and he posted a selfie with the caption, “I’m yours. 🤗😘”
The first comment was a woman asking, “Who is she?” He said, “I’m a slow mover, but she knows who she is, I think.”
Everyone else was making comments like, “I’m glad you found someone to smile about,” “She’s the lucky one to have found you,” “I’m so happy for you and wish the best for you and your queen,” etc.
He was hearting all the replies. With that said, he refused to answer who she was.
So I texted him, “I gotta ask based on your post, did you actually find someone or are you just joking around?” He replied, “Maybe both”
I said, “I’m confused. Is that a yes or a no?” He read my text but didn’t respond.
I said, “I’m trying to figure out if you have a new girlfriend or something, because people keep congratulating you on your new girlfriend.”
Still no response. Maybe an hour later, I called him, and he didn’t answer. So I texted again, “Since I can’t get a straight answer from you, I’m going to give you some space, since you probably found someone.”
Still no answer. A couple hours later, I said, “You didn’t say no in your comments or to me, so that tells me all I need to know.”
He instantly texted back, “We can still f on Fridays.”
I asked, “You have a girlfriend, right?”
He said, “Nah I don’t lol.”
I said, “I’m confused. Explain?” But he never answered.
I don’t know how I’m supposed to act with him now? Where do I go from here?
Netizens’ comments
- Why are you sending him so many messages when he clearly doesn’t give a damn.
- Just cut him loose. He obviously has someone he wants to make his GF, but it hasn’t moved to that stage yet. And he’s playing games with you now. He doesn’t want to cut you loose in case things don’t work out with her. He won’t be honest and straight with you, so have some self respect and move on.
- Why are you debasing yourself by texting and calling someone five times in a row after they leave you on read each time? Even if he were to be sending you a magical homing beacon that he wants you to be his girlfriend (I am positive that that’s not what’s happening), he’s communicating in such a cryptic manner that you’re obviously incompatible as you clearly need things spelled out more literally.