I caught my Husband cheating on me with my Mother!!!
My mother (56F) and Husband ( 28M) have always been particularly close but I never suspected anything until about a month ago.
But a little backstory on me and my mom’s relationship , it’s always been a little rocky when I was growing up I always felt like my mom was in competition with me
I remember bringing my first boyfriend home and she asked what I was doing with such a boy as him and I was basic after that I always vowed the next guy I bring home would be the one I marry.
And I held my promise I brought my fiancé to meet my mom after 3 years of dating. It was nicest my mom was to me besides not knowing that I was engaged and her and my fiancé clicked right away, i was so happy I felt like I finally found the right one.
It was all great up until now I recently noticed my husband pull away from me like he couldn’t stand to be around me, I thought it most likely was a phase in most marriages and would surely pass but it didn’t.
it got worse over time he would sneak away every time his phone would ring I asked my friends what I should do and took the advice to try and be a little different like cooking every day and going on date nights but it seems like he was never interested.
I was up past midnight googling signs of relationships failing but I heard his phone go off and decided to check for him since he was asleep
I realized it was from my mom from the 10 missed calls because the number wasn’t saved and thought it could be an emergency.
but she ended leaving a message saying babe text me back, I didn’t think too much of it and checked the message and what I found broke my heart
he had been texting her since the beginning of our marriage sending flowers to her job and saying he wished he met her before meeting me and how he didn’t want to “break my heart” but he was going to “leave me eventually”
I am heartbroken and don’t know what to do it’s been about 3 weeks and I haven’t said anything and been acting as if everything is normal. I need some advice on how to handle this.