Heartbroken
Yesterday my girlfriend of 5years have broken up with me because she fall in love with her co worker.
Throughout our relationship, there wasn’t a major issue and it was full of happiness. We have BTOed and I was planning to propose this coming April after my internship. I have even brought the engagement ring..
However, ever since she joined her company after graduation, she has been hanging out with her co workers after work, started to go drinking and go clubbing.
Initially I thought that it was fine because I have faith that she is faithful and committed to our relationship. Hence, I did not stop her and even showed her my understanding when she just went MIA when she’s out with her co workers.
Just few weeks back, she started to be cold towards me. Love gesture from me she also show signs of turning off which makes me wonder what happened. Initially I thought that it was due to her busy work schedule that made her tired. Turns out, she told me that she did not feel the same anymore and she has fall in loved with one of her co worker(he is in a long term relationship too). I have ask her how far did they go and she told me that nothing happen and it’s just feelings. When I request to see her texted between her and the guy, she has deleted it..
We have met up yesterday and I told her to make up her mind to either
1) text the guy and draw the line infront of me so that we can work on our relationship.
2) break up
And she ultimately choose to give up our relationship..
I am heartbroken… how can I feel happy again?