I am a Singaporean man reaching my 40s soon.
My cousin who is almost 20 years younger than me recently told me that nowadays couples like to date and f- first to see if they are suitable before they decide whether to get into a relationship with each other.
I couldn’t fathom why someone would go through such lengths and was curious to know more about why this is the order of the day.
No more sweet old love like my teen years
I thought back to my teen years and how I had grown up with different ideals.
Back then, it was quite a big deal to have a relationship with someone. You had to get to know them first and then decide if you wanted to take it to the next level.
The idea of having s- first was unheard of and it just wasn’t something that was done.
But now, it seems that couples have changed their approach and are more willing to try and get a better understanding of the other person’s personality before they decide to enter into a relationship.
I asked my cousin to explain to me why this was the case. He said that it’s a way for couples to gauge if they are compatible with each other.
It’s a way for them to get to know each other on a more intimate level, as well as to get a better understanding of their s- chemistry.
It also eliminates the risk of getting into a relationship with someone that might not be compatible in the long run.
I can’t help but think that this approach is a bit risky. It’s quite possible that one partner could be looking for something more serious while the other is just out for a good time.
This could lead to a lot of emotional baggage, which could have been avoided if they had taken their time and got to know each other properly first.
It’s also worth mentioning that this approach might not be suitable for everyone. For some, it could be a great way to get to know someone better and to assess if they are compatible.
On the other hand, it could also be a way to avoid getting into a serious relationship or to just have a good time without any strings attached.
It’s quite clear that the way couples date and enter relationships has changed drastically over the years.
The traditional approach of taking the time to get to know each other is no longer the norm, and couples are now more willing to try out this new approach of dating and f-ing first to see if they are suitable for each other.