I am 40 and I have a good career. I am not wealthy but can afford decent life.
I had no luck with girls or dating at all in my life. I have come to the point of accepting the proposal from someone I know. Now I want to crowdsource opinion to make my decision.
Recently, I got to know a pretty looking guy. After being a friend who went hunting to get to know girls with me for close to two months we became good friends. We were not successful in finding any woman who want us. So we will hang around for meals at night.
Then one night he suggested that I can pay for his surgery in Thailand for him be become a female. He said that the advantage is that I can decide how I want him to look like. He suggested that this way I can have a very pretty wife that anyone will feel jealous of. He said that he will love me and be the woman of my dreams. He also said that this means that I dont have to wait any longer.
I dont know if I should accept his proposal. I just want a woman who will be mine. I dont mind if she was a “he” before. What will you do if you are me?
Here are what netizens think:
- Your mentality is wrong. You don’t depend on others for your own happiness. Being attached or married is not abt finding life’s happiness or ending loneliness. You do so because you find someone you want to spend your life with, and the person feels the same.
- Think about it, if he changes to female, what makes you think he won’t abandon you and find his own love?
- You pay, he change. And he’ll leave. Because after he becomes pretty, he’ll leave for richer guys.