I’ve been with my wife who was my GF for 9 years now and we are happily married. But as a guy, I have a huge problem. I have never been able to “satisfy” her and she has always had a good S drive and now it seems as the drive is starting to die down because of me which makes me feel bad.
Now the reason why I’m not able to satisfy her is that the skin covering the tool is tight around me and it’s really painful when even attempted to be pulled back a little, let alone all the way. I think the problem here is called phimosis? Yeah.
So my question is, is there others out there that faced this same skin problem and if you did, how did you get around it? Or should I see a doctor or something?
I have been trying to do other things to keep out romance up but I don’t think it will be a long term solution. Also feel free to laugh at a guy not being able to enjoy one of the best things a human being can.
Here are some advise from “internet doctors”:
- See a doctor. Theres meds to help you losen the skin to stretch, iirc. The doctor will teach u how to stretch out ur skin. Worst case scenario is you might need a circumcision, but that would be rare. This is nothing shameful. Many people deny seeking treatment because they are afraid of shame, but end up harming themselves and their loved ones.
- Just pull back and bear with the pain. No choice. You should have done it earlier.
- This one not guy, he ah gua so scare pain.